Friday, July 18, 2014

Fairy Lands - A guide to fairies and belief

“Once Upon a Time” people didn't believe that fairies lived in some distant land, for nearly  everyone had a story of encountering fairies in the lakes, forests, moores, and even the cities of their homeland. “Fairy Lands” will discuss not only these fairy tales, but the folk religion behind them, as well as the regions they took place in, and the history of the people who told them.

With extensive maps to show you where different fairy encounters occurred, this book will take you on a guided journey across Europe to understanding the almost forgotten fairy realms.

I'm planning on launching a Kickstarter campaign for this book, and but would like to find support for it before I launch. So please sign up to receive an email when I launch this project.

This book will closely examine the stories, history, and folk belief's of many unique lands, which like a path of bread crumbs through the sylvan forest, each culture's beliefs will lead you ever closer to understanding of the fairy realm.
From the alpine fairy realms of Northern Italy, to the stillness of the Eurasian Steppes, to the quite rivers of Mongolia, "A Dreamer's Guide to Fairies and Fairy Tales," will help readers understand the beautiful and often strange fairy realms.
Thanks to the supporters for my last successful Kickstarter campaign I was able to publish "A Writers Guide to Fairies, Witches, and Vampires." And I was also able to get rough drafts of a number of books, including a book on Fairy Tale Archetypes and Japan's Folk Religion. I am coming back now to get these rough drafts edited, and to get another book edited on fairies across Eurasia. 
As a child growing up in Yupik villages I heard a lot of folktales from people who still respected them, more than this i discovered that each story I was told had a story behind it.

Each fairy tale has a setting, a place which isn't often discussed in the fairy tales, because the people listening to the story knew this setting. Yet this setting is intimately important to truly enjoying the fairy tale. My hope is that learning about the beauty and fairy faith of lands such as Northern Italy, or the isolation of the Selkup villages will help stir your imagination. 
People used to believe in the witches, vampires and fairies in these stories. They were afraid that a wolf might take human form in order to eat them, they really did hope that a fairy would come and bless them so they could escape their ordinary life. Further in ancient times many leaders would take spirit journeys, entering the realm of fairies in order to understand the nature of humanity and the universe. So once upon a time whole societies would base their philosophies and activities on their belief in fairies, deities, spirits and similar beings. So fairy tales are not abstract morality tales, they are stories filled with the spirits people feared and credited with controlling fate which is why the word fairy at it's origin means in essence 'those who control fate.
Because of this people thought a lot about and discussed fairy tales as stories filled with real beings, beings people needed to avoid or get on the good side of. So fairies and vampires were assigned personalities, given goals even if these aren't overtly stated in fairy tales.
I'm including links to a few sample articles I've posted on my blog. Part of what I want to do with this project is flesh out an lengthen each of these articles and many to provide you with more information fairies.
Here in this land it's difficult to tell if you are in the fairy realm in the sky, the underworld, or still in the Middle Realm of Humans and strange spirits. For a person can find themselves in fairyland simply by stepping off the path, or walking out their door at the wrong time... Read More

Monday, July 14, 2014


Like a horned owl the Buffardello is a creature of the night, who has started finding ways to adapt to the presence of human cities by living in barns, trees in gardens, and occasionally even human homes. Though typically they prefer to live in nut trees, creeping into homes through windows, under the cover of darkness.

In lore their cunning and ability to become invisible has allowed them to thrive in the human world. Never the less, the buffardello doesn't entirely belong in the human world, they are liminal creatures caught between their wilderness home and the new habitat which humanity has created. Thus they appear as a humanoid with animal features. Some buffardello appear as having fox like features, others as cat like, or rat like or dog like features. And in Pianacci there are even some described as being like a bird with a mouse's head.

Wild and mischievous in their new homes they rush about at night bouncing on sleeping people's stomach's and chests, they'll put their hands over people's mouths, pull the covers off sleepers, hide and move objects, turn on and off lights, rip paper, cut beards, tie hair in knots, and generally cause chaos. Further they can also be mistaken for the wind which rattles windows, and occasionally gusts into house through open windows blowing things everywhere.

In addition to their pranks, Buffardello, like any wild animal, often take food from humans, drinking milk from cows, stealing wine, bread and on occasion they'll even attack and drink the blood from an animal like a weasel is said to do.

In addition to viewing them as animals, it's likely that Buffardello can also be viewed as somewhat akin to children with no parents and no real rules. This, however, also means that while they are often thoughtless if they are forced to confront their victims, to realize the impact their actions are having they can feel very bad about it. This is demonstrated by the following tale from Casola in Lunigina.

Casola in Lunigina

Folk Tale

The harvest had been poor that year, and the cow had grown sickly, so it was producing very little milk. With their meager rations about to run out the young widow Giovanna set out during the coldest part of winter in hopes of finding work in other people's fields, but there was far too much snow on the ground for anyone to be thinking of work, so the young woman began to worry that she and her children would starve to death. , she began to worry that she and her young child would starve to death.

When she opened the cupboard to get a bit of the last bread for her child to eat she found that the whole loaf was gone. She looked about the house in a panic, wondering how she could have lost it, but in the end could find nothing, so she prepared a watery soup with a few of the withered vegetables she had left.

That night, the hunger pains were so intense that Giovanna couldn't sleep so she got up to finish making a shirt, but as soon as she stepped out of her room she heard strange noises coming out of the kitchen. When she stepped in, her candle held high she saw three Buffardello, their eyes growing round with surprise for a moment before they smashed their hands over them.

"Put out the light," they cried. "It's too bright."

Once she'd done as the three fairies asked Giovanna began scolding the buffardello for stealing her bread. She told them about her child who would cry himself to sleep he was so hungry, and about how she was so worried she couldn't sleep.

The buffardello promised her that if she left them alone at night she would find bread for her and her child in the morning. What's more her cow would be healthy and strong again.

So the woman left the buffardello alone in the dark, and the next morning, as promised she found a loaf of bread, and a healthy cow which gave her milk to get through the winter. That spring she had the largest harvest of vegetables and wheat she'd ever had.

More about the Buffardello

As part of being childlike they have an odd relationship with children. On the one hand they enjoy scaring and playing pranks on children, but they also want to be with children and will fall asleep next to them, or at times kidnap and hypothetically raise them.

The same thing is true of their relationship with woman girls, while they will typically play pranks on a girl or woman, they'll at times seem to fall in love with them. In these cases they'll provide them with food, and potions which will make them beautiful. But as with most relationships with a fairy the girl must take care not to reveal that a buffardello is in love with her or the vindictive fairy will attack them, and on occasion kill them.

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

The Chaos of a Spring Festival

In the province of South Tyrol, Northern Italy, there remains a chaotic, topsy turvey festival, filled with remnants of gender bending shamanism, in the form of a man dressed as a woman acting as the wife of the spirit of spring. This is fairly typical in Eurasian Shamanism, in Japan and most other places spring festivals featured a man or boy dressed as a woman. This is because it was believed that they were being possessed by a female spirit, (a goddess, fairy queen, nymph, etc.) Men were the ones most likely to be possessed by these spirits, because this turned them into liminal figures. That is it pushed them away from human society and into the other world. Further, possession of this type was often likened to a form of marriage and so it made sense for a female spirit to possess a male person, and for a male spirit to possess a female. Though as with all things about shamanism nothing was certain. You can learn more about European Shamanism here.

In addition there are wild men representing the spirits of winter that must be killed by hunters, and monsters known as Schnappviecher (cattle snappers)

Thursday, July 3, 2014

living on the edge of the spirit world

A thousand dogs howled, turning their heads to the red colored sky to sing out their primal song. It's nearly midnight but the sun still drags around the edge of the sky giving hours of twilight, of half light that can neither be called fully day nor fully night. Like the famous midnight sun of the North, Siberia and the Eurasian Steppes often times isn't simply a liminal world, for that would imply boundaries between humanity and the spirit world, but in this place such boundaries are never very clear, if they exist at all. Here people didn't live on the edge of the spirit world, they didn't live with 'batches' of wilderness, instead they were surrounded by the wild. Whether in their little fish and hunting camps, herding animals over the grasslands, or in the villages, the wilderness was all about them. It stretched out for a seeming eternity, and given how long it might take to walk from one place to another, at times it might has well have gone on forever. Those who step away from their home could walk for days without seeing another person, another village, or any sign that humans began to understand the vast loneliness of this land.

According to Siikala, Napolskikh, and Hoppal;

Sometimes there is no clear-cut spatial localization in the description of the other world – one cannot say definitely if the matter concerns the space “underground”, or “in the sky”, or on the lower or the upper reaches of the river; the heroes find themselves in another world without it having any particular localization. In this case it is next to impossible to define the border between the real and the unreal worlds, and this fact is of fundamental importance not only in the mythology of the Selkups but also in many other West Siberian traditions. The real world is a person himself and his house, it is his settlement with the territory surrounding it and adapted to the maximum for keeping house. For the Southern Selkups the focal feature of the landscape was a part of the river bank where a small tributary flows into a larger river, as this was the usual place for a settlement, and also the flood plain of the river with its numerous lakes where the trade interest was

concentrated. The hunting grounds are also in the real world, but the man is on the alert here and acts cautiously as the guest of the forest master since “it is not quite another world, yet already it is not the man’s world either”. The river itself, where the settlement was situated, and flood-plain lakes, where people went fishing nearly every day, are a part of the real world and at the same time “another” world. Moreover, it was clearly felt in real life that “everywhere man shared his habitat with the representatives of another world

The omnipresent wilderness is a mixed blessing, for on the one hand it's a place filled with food. The place of the hunt, and of wild vegetables and fruits to gather, of fodder for herd animals. On the other hand it's a place to be feared. So many people will go out into the wild and never return. No one will ever know what happened to them, they will just be gone. Leaving behind only whispers, rumors of what might have happened. This, perhaps, is why the spirits of the wild begin as a primal fear, for those who set foot outside the small village or off the well known routes the eternal quite stretches out before them. Sudden feelings of lonesomeness can wash over them, there are no roads, no way to contact anyone for hours, days even, if trouble should arise. Those out in the wilderness are truly alone, and they can die alone all too easily. Worse even than the feeling of loneliness, however, is oftentimes the feeling of being watched. The feeling that there is something in the trees, on the vast tundra, hiding among the rocks or in the water. Here in this lonely place witches clacked their claws in the long grass, waiting to devour children or other humans. Spirits snatched away peoples souls dragging them into the “Other World,” here one false step could send a person to a land of eternal torment.

Most people believed that one could step into this other world simply by setting foot off the Ski track. Soon these unexpected wanderers of the spirit realms will find themselves surrounded by the bones of humans and dogs, in a vast place filled with malign and hungry spirits. Other Worlds also had entrances on flood plains and in sacred storehouses with the images of spirits, or in groves of sacred trees. Once in these places a person might find it impossible to ever leave, to ever return home, for those they left behind they would simply have vanished into uncertain tears and fearful rumors

One Nenets tale for example begins;

At the fork of a river was a chum (teepee) where an woman lived with her two sons. One day the woman went to gather food and never returned. What had become of her no one knew, perhaps a bear and eaten her or she drowned in the river. The only trace of her was her two little sons alone in the chum.

Growing up in Yupik villages there were occasionally people who did vanish, people who were out hunting or fishing that never returned. Because of this it's actually very common for stories on the steppes and in Siberia to begin with someone disappearing forever. A boy grows up alone and wonders why he's the only person in an Evanki tale, so he sets out to find other people. Eventually he meets a squirrel who is his sister, taken prisoner by the monsters that ate their people when the boy was too small to remember. In a similar story a monster devours an entire village but for an old woman and a little boy, when the boy grows older he wonders why there are so many yurts but no other people. From such stories one certainly gets the sense that there are ghost cities, and indeed when a plague, an enemy or a storm while the people were away on the river could kill an entire village leaving nothing but creepy, empty yurts and chum (teepee like structures). Going back to the story of the two brothers left alone by the riverside, they begin to live by gathering food and fishing, until years later they decide there must be other people and that they should go and look for them. So they set out and eventually find a girl picking cloud berries. The girl takes them back to her chum and there he lives with her and her parents where they have to learn how to herd reindeer and do similar tasks.

There is typically a lot more to these tales then simply a “Jungle Book” like tale of a child who is the only survivor of their people, and of ghost camps of an people wiped out by some evil spirit. For in many of these stories the boy must set out into the spirit world to seek revenge, to kill the monster that slew their family. All of these are stories about survival, however, of two young brothers trying to survive in the wild, an old woman trying to care for and raise the last boy of her tribe. This is about the dying and rebirth of a people.

In a Tatar tale three brothers are out hunting when they come upon a girl who lives alone in a hut, so they adopt her as their sister. It's never said why a young girl was living alone, but presumably like so many others it's not certain, her family, her people are just gone leaving her to try to get by on her own, and she herself almost dies from the other world all around them, for she and her new brothers are neighbors with an Aeneas (a witch / vampire that has long fangs and leopard claws, who drains marrow from sleeping people). The girl meets her neighbor when she goes out to try to find something to start a fire with while her brothers are out hunting. Starting a fire was difficult without matches so neighbors would often borrow hot coals from each other to make this easier. The girls sees some smoke rising in the distance and realizes that someone must have a hearth so goes through the woods and knocks on the Aeneas's door. The Aeneas greets her saying “We are neighbors you should be my guest” so at first the Aeneas appears nice and even gives the girl some coals in a bucket to take back with her to start a fire. Later the Aeneas comes for a visit and tells the girl that she was bored. The girl happily invites her in and eventually falls asleep, while she sleeps the Aeneas drains some of her marrow and leaves her laying on the carpet. Realizing what had happened to their sister the brothers wait to ambush the Aeneas when she comes back, but one by one she drains them until the last brother over comes her and beats her until she heals everyone.

There were two poor girls who discovered that they had a neighbor who was going to help them get fatter so that he could eat them. One night as they were sleeping the monster came in and patted the stomach of the youngest sister; “saying the fish will grow more abundant so that you will grow fat so that I may eat you.” The girl of course woke up and heard this but the monster didn't realize it so the next morning she warned her elder sister not to eat, but at first her sister doesn't believe her, that is until she witnesses the monster for herself. The two of them decide to flee deeper into the forest. As they run they come to a giant river, on the other bank is an old woman. They call to her to stretch out her legs so that they can run across them and escape them monster which is chasing them. At first the old woman tells them she's too busy picking the lice out of her hair, and at last the girls tell her they'll help her if she helps them. So the old woman stretches her legs across the vast river (she's clearly some sort of spirit) and lets them run across. In due time the monster follows the girl and once more the woman stretches her legs across the river, only when the monster is trying to cross on them she pulls them away and the monster falls into the river and drowns. Though the girls aren't out of the woods yet, for the old woman's sons are also evil monsters. So she has to hide them from her children. Eventually the old woman tells the sisters to escape by running up the flow of the river, though even here they encounter a strange monster which carries them off and drops them into a barn. They escape this situation only to enter the house of a frog, who warns them that her husband too will eat them. The girls began to weep for there were too many monsters everywhere they went and they lamented that there would be no escape from this.

In many ways then this is a nightmare world, where a person can run and run and run and always find some other dangerous spirit. Yet it wasn't all bad, for in this world giants could be friendly as well. One giant for example helps a starving old woman cut a hole in the ice and catch fish for her and her son. Then when the old woman's poor son seeks him out the giant greats him happily, feeds him the best cuts of meat and gives him a magical bag which he warns him only to open in his home. As he's traveling back to his home some evil spirits under the ice try to get him to open the bag outside but he ignores them and when he opens up the bag reindeer herds poor out, so many he becomes the wealthiest man on the tundra. More than this he gains a beautiful wife from the bag as well. His greedy brother tries to imitate his luck but he gives into the temptation of the evil spirits and opens the bag outside so instead of reindeer wolves come poring out and they eat all  his reindeer. In another case a hunter comes upon a snake who's being attacked by a bear. The snake turns to the hunter and pleads; “save me and I'll show you something wonderful at the bottom of the ocean.” When the hunter kills the bear the snake keeps his word and gives the hunter a birch box that is always filled with feasts.

Saturday, June 28, 2014

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Thursday, June 26, 2014

Misty Forests: Discover the Secret World of Europe's Oldest Fairyrealm

Mari-El, a land of vast and isolated forests, a land of Europe's oldest Fairy Faiths.

Here in this land it's difficult to tell if you are in the fairy realm in the sky, the underworld, or still in the Middle Realm of Humans and strange spirits. For a person can find themselves in fairyland simply by stepping off the path, or walking out their door at the wrong time.

Mari-el has a dizzying array of spirits, everything and anything you can think of has a spirit. Clean water ways are ruled over the But Aba, the colic of horses is ruled over by a spirit known as Asera. Forests themselves have dozens, if not hundreds of spirits which rule over and divide up the land. For example; there are the Targeldes, which are the spirits of either those who died in the forest (especially murder victims) or still born babies. Appearing as massive headed, giant Cyclopes, they rove the forest near where they were murdered but will occasionally be seen wandering through fields, meadows, and even into town. Mischievous with a cruel streak they are known to shift their form to that of animals, logs, haystacks, they shriek to frighten cattle and laugh at the chaos which results. Similarly they frighten mushroom gatherers, berry pickers, and anyone else who might find themselves in the forest. Worse they also chase people down or lure them into the forest in order to tickle them to death.

From WikiCommons

The forest itself seems to be a Topsy-turvy place in general, for here the obda will appear with their feet on backwards. When they steal a horse to ride about the horse even runs backwards, and typically they face backwards as well. They ride about on a single ski in the winter, or sit in the forest laughing wildly and clapping madly. When they are seen Obda appear as naked, hairy people, with the females having such long breasts that they need to throw them over their shoulders when they run. Like other forest spirits they love to capture and tickle people to death, though they also enjoy using their control over people to make them dance themselves to death. Still most of the time they are more prankish than this and they love to pop out of random places to scream and startle people. In order to escape one can't simply fight them as every drop of their blood which falls to the ground will become another obda. The only real way to defeat them is to keep them away with dogs, which they fear, or to reach inside the holes which are under their armpits for doing so causes the obda to loose it's power. Further it seems that the obda can't run back on its own tracks, so as long as a person runs away from the obda over it's tracks it will be unable to follow them.

Targeldes and Obda also shares the forest with Codra Kugua and Codra Kuba (the old man and old woman of the forest) who are the owners of all the animals in the forest. Any hunter who wishes to have luck in hunting must offer these spirits porridge or else they won't be able to catch game. Worse these spirits might grow angry, causing the forest to shake with their fury. When they demand that the hunter share his food or leave another offering, they'll begin knocking (while invisible) on a nearby tree. Often bored they love games of chance and so are known to gamble with each other, using their animals as the stakes, with the winner getting more animals in their forest, and the looser having less.

As if the woodland weren't crowded enough there are also Keremets (the spirits of people who died badly or heroes that can act as deities and disease bringers) L'esak which are giant forest spirits with a bristly hair like a hay stack and big eyes and a giant head. Which loves to drink liqueur, and howls like a dog or makes sounds like a raven. A weird trickster they will often make dung appear to be bread, or do other similar sorts of things. They are also fore-tellers of tragic events, for those who hear them know that someone they love will soon die (given the nature of the l'esak it may be that they think it’s funny to let someone know something bad is coming so they can watch the person panic and try to prevent it).

From WikiCommons

As human civilization began to grow, it seems that many of these wilderness spirits began to move into human lands. Araptes, a spirit which appears as beautiful three foot tall girls, haunt abandoned bathhouses, though Araptes can also be the spirit of a murderer who haunts a region, or the spirit of a forest which can also be dangerous.

Similarly the Suksendal are feral spirits which lived in the mountains where they would hide under stones. Now, however, they have started to hide under stones in the homestead or in the bathhouse. They appear as short blond men or girls, cause people to have nightmares or rape people in their sleep. They are also known to kidnap babies and commit murder, though one could use sharp iron knifes to keep them away. Further it seems that as they began to live among humans for longer periods of time some of them came to care for the people around them as there are more recent stories about a few of them acting helpfully. One even took a soldier to be an invisible guest at his brothers far away wedding.

Most of the spirits within the household, even the ones that likely came from the wild have similarly become, or always were helpful. Kude Bodez, for example is a deity which lives in the holy corner of the house, where the family continually places fresh twigs for him. Generally friendly the kude will occasionally appear in human form to the family members and bring them good luck and happiness. Still the Kude is a bit like a sensitive child and will become destructive and dangerous if offended, or especially if the people in the house begin to fight with each other. When this happens the kude will begin to act like a poltergeist or bring sickness to the offending family member so that it needs to be calmed with offerings. These offerings are usually of honey, cake, bread, and sacrificed animals (black sheep, duck, hen or hare). After these sacrifices are made the family is expected to share in the kude's feast, eating a family meal of the various offerings, while the head of the household begs the kude for forgiveness and puts a piece of the sacrificed animals organ on the kuda's sacred shelf.

Spirits of Cold and Frost
Poksem Kuguza and Poksem Kuba are the male and female spirits of the cold who live as close knit and mischievous family groups, with their grandfather being the most destructive of them (perhaps because being really really old he's suffering from a bit of Peter Pan syndrome and wants to be childlike again). People sacrifice animals to them, so that they have something to eat, rather than needing to destroy crops.

Justa Kuguza and and Justa Kuba ar ethe male and female spirits of the frost who are much more mischievous and obnoxious than their cold counterparts. They beat on fences, walls and trees while people are trying to sleep. They call for children to come out to play, pinches people's feet and noses, hits people over the head with a mallet so that they become confused from the cold, and will sew the door closed with frost to make it hard for people to get out. They especially love to harass drunk people and will push them about and occasionally go overboard killing people. Occasionally they also climb up into people's rafters, (especially their children Justa Ega and Justa Ebeza (son and daughter respectively)


The vampires of the Mari People they travel about as a shooting star, as a woman with long hair, or a man with a long beard with sparks trailing from their hair as they fly through the air. They can also appear as a bird which pecks at trees killing them.

They fly out of the their grave through small holes to suck the milk out of cows (causing the remaining milk to have blood or dirt in it) or the blood out of people’s mouths by kissing them. Other dangerous activities include eating people and animal’s eyes, or entering women to eat their fetuses and the stomachs of people. They also become especially beautiful people to become a human’s lover so that they can toy with their emotions and drive them insane. Finally they would possess people, causing them to do evil while in a dream like trance.

In order to deal with them people would dig up the body of the person whose spirit they were and beat it with mountain ash branches and burn it. Though sometimes before they could kill it it would escape from the corpse’s mouth in the form of a butterfly and become a buber bird. To prevent this people would put a stone from the craw of a chicken in the corpse’s mouth. Other times it could be reborn from the ashes after it was burned, so killing it was really hard. The only real way to deal with it then was to put a horseshoe at the threshold of a house so that it couldn't enter.

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Souls of the Mari-El

Everyone had three souls known as Sules, Con and Ort. Should the Sules or Con leave the body the person would die almost instantly. The Con would move about within a person’s body, and if the place where it was located was struck the person would also die.

Unlike the other souls the ort regularly leaves  person’ s body when they dream, or when a shaman sends it out in a form of astral projection. Though if it remains outside of the body too long illness and even death will eventually result. As a free flowing soul ort is also able to remain behind when a person dies, sometimes flying about as a butterfly or a bird, or wandering invisible (or visible) through the village. After forty days people would have a feast to say goodbye to this spirit as if it enter the land of the dead at this point it was likely to grow malicious.


Pancakes are an important food in Mari-El Tales. One man who discovers a wishing tree is gathering wood so that he can have pancakes. Indeed they are perhaps the most commonly mentioned food in Fairy Tales.

The Pancakes include those made with Barley Flour, with Rye, With crushed Onions in the batter, Oats, or Various Berries.


Various Grains boiled with Pork, Mutton, and Beef
For example:

2 Cups Oats, 1 Cup Lard, 1/2 Cup Pork, Clove of Garlic, Water, Salt
Boil until the Pork is well cooked.


Dice Apple's and Turnips, Add a little Sugar, Serve with Sour Cream

Chicken Liver
Fry Liver in Butter with Chopped Onion.
When brown add a little hot water, and a tomato. Simmer with Rice until water is evaporated.
Bake the resulting rice in the oven for a while.

Mushroom Dumplings
Mushrooms, onion, pepper, salt for the dumpling mixture.
Serve with butter or sour cream.

Fish Noodles
Boil a large cleaned fish in water salted to taste.
Remove the Fish
Boil Potatoes and Onions in the Broth, remove.
Cook the Noodles in this broth.

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

More Strange Things You Didn't Know About Fairies

1-Fairies had multiple souls and personalities

It was once commonly believed that fairies had multiple souls, and that each of these souls had a different nature, a different personality.

This makes sense give that everything in nature is duel sided. The river that provides fish and water for the crops is prone to flash floods and will take children from their parents.

The forest which is home to food is also home to the wolves, and is a place in which people can get lost, vanishing forever.

Thus wicked fairies such as the one in "Sleeping Beauty" was actually exactly the same as the "good fairies." However, once the negative aspect of her had been brought forth she became temporarily wicked.

2-Fairies rarely fully matured

Although they might be old fairies never truly ever matured. Most of them would always act childish.

3-Fairies were often refugees

From Ireland to Japan many peoples defeated fairy like beings, forcing them into hiding.

In one tale from Ireland a Queen was kidnapped by the fairies so the King declared war on them, sending out men to dig up their mountains, pouring salt into these to destroy the invisible fairy kingdoms within. At last broken the fairies had to surrender.

4-Fairies were enforcers of morality

Fairies were obsessed with morality.
They would go about rewarding what they considered moral behavior and punishing what they considered immoral behavior. Hard work, kindness, creativity, and cleverness were the most important morals to fairy kind.

Many fairies despised wealthy nobles and appointed a number of Robin Hood like figures to rob from the rich and give to the poor.

5-Fairies are grandfatherly or grandmotherly.

Driving their obsession with morality fairies often act grandfatherly or grandmotherly to the many young humans around them. Indeed even a dangerous fairy can be befriended by calling it "Grandfather" or "Grandmother" or by telling it a story about adventure or true love.

Just like a cat may occasionally adopt a 
duckling, even some of the most dangerous fairies 
will on occasion come to care for a human. Indeed one 
of the the most wicked fairies in Eastern Europe would often 
adopt a single human family, even while they tortured it's neighbors.

6-There are fairies who are related to vampires.
Some fairies would drink blood, be banished by herbs, sunlight, the cross, etc. Indeed in many places there were fairies which were also the unclean dead that lived among the fairy court.